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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Your husband sounds very controlling.

The prenup means you’re more financially vulnerable than you would otherwise be. Plus he wants to isolate you from your family so you’re without a support system. He controls the money, he wants to control who you talk to as well.

The fact that you have a contentious relationship with your mom that you admit was abusive is a red flag for your marriage. Statistically, you’re more likely to seek out a partner who’s abusive because that feels familiar and comfortable.

I don’t want to minimize the severity of leaving an infant alone. Of course it’s a given that your mom won’t babysit in the future. But going no contact over this incident is batshit insane.

You’ve truly traded one abuser for another. [/quote]

OP here.

- My husband isn’t controlling.

- We both signed a prenup to protect assets that were acquired before being married. Any money earned in our marriage is ours.

- He doesn’t control our money. We both work and have a joint account. I can spend as much as I want and he doesn’t care or say anything. It’s our money.

- My husband has never once been abusive or controlling. He has never called me a name, yelled at me, or kept from me people. He’s extremely sweet and supportive and would never harm me. I even make most of the decisions in our house.

- it’s not just one incident. It’s a culmination of many incidents.

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