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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, I’d recommend making it clear you are dating because you want to be in an exclusive relationship. Also ask for written proof of current std testing and say you aren’t co for table sleeping with someone unless it’s exclusive and old profiles have been taken down. Also don’t sleep with a guy after just a few dates. I tend to date a guy for a least a couple months before sex

The vast majority of guys I’ve dated are fine with this. I’ve only had one guy leave me because of this and in retrospect he was just looking for sex [/quote]

This PP puts it well. Make it clear that you are dating with the goal of an exclusive relationship, and make it clear up front. This screens out the guys who have no interest in you as a person but who just want to get laid as soon as possible after contacting you through OLD.

Dating a few times, then having to bring up "I want a relationship/exclusivity/STD test results/OLD profile gone" only when he's on date 3 (or whatever) and clearly expecting sex that night or very soon, is a waste of your time and his.[/quote]

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