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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My stepfather is a nice enough guy but I don't love his kids and never will. I feel like any time my Mom spends with his kids has been taken out of time she could be spending with mine. Mom married him after I was out of the house so I never shared a roof with him. Still, it's not comfortable to visit their shared home now. Esp when his kids are there too. Way too stressful on everyone. I would NEVER remarry if DH died. [/quote] You sound awful. If one of your parents died you would be OK with them never remarriage because it takes away time from you? So self centered. You know if a parent got sick or another sibling the same would happen. I don't see why you have to do blended family activities but I don't get harboring resentment because someone else remarries.[/quote] Whatever, I don't care what you think. My Dad also remarried and his new wife has kids but they never tried to "unite" us into some blended family thing. Here's what I resent: Stepdad has 3 kids, Mom has two. Her time and money are now divided by visiting 5 kids all across the country instead of two. Would I feel the same way if this was due to death instead of divorce? Yes. [/quote]
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