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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, yelling and swearing at each other is not normal or healthy. You need therapy too. Lots of it. Healthy relationships and healthy people don’t fight like this.  [/quote]

I’m already in therapy. This argument was abnormal for us, hence noting the work stress.

Our household is generally peaceful. [/quote]

I don't think that this sounds generally peaceful. It sounds like it is a high conflict relationship with some periods of stability. If this is a bright line for you then your husband knew that and wanted it to hurt and scare you. Or maybe he wanted you to threaten to leave. Who knows. What is the case, though, is you need better ways of fighting. There's constant stress in a working family. It will happen again. So what do you do then?

I think you should separate, as suggested, and spend some time working through why you are drawn to high conflict relationships. What purpose does it serve? And can you get that need met in a healthier way? I think you deserve it. And your child does too.[/quote]

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