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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel sad reading this. "men like this" "men want that". What about what YOU want? What about dating someone who likes YOU and not just your butt or skin or clothes?

There is nothing wrong with hitting the gym or buying new clothes. But do it because it makes YOU feel good, not because some man may like you better. [/quote]

Right? And I find it repulsive that there are people (presumably men) on here counseling this woman what she needs to do to win their attention. YES, looks matter. YES, feeling good about yourself matters. But the person you are on the inside, the partner you want to be, etc. are more important. Looks fade and I'd be loathe to want to be with someone who cannot appreciate that and has some sort of "standard" for my looks. [/quote]

Hey, the OP asked for opinions on how to gain male attention. And he will never know how great you are "on the inside" if you are a fat slob who dresses poorly.

And that fact is that fat slobs who dress poorly are also defective on the inside, because their appearance reflects their negative attitude and low self-esteem.[/quote]
This is harsh, but somewhat true. I keep myself in shape and wear clothes which flatter my figure because I want to look and feel attractive. Thinking about being intimate with a man motivates me to keep up my efforts. I want to look good naked. I would feel self conscious and not into it if I were sloppy looking.[/quote]
You do know that clothing doesnt make you look good naked right[/quote]

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