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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why does it bother you so much?[/quote]

Because she does not have the guts to do it. Jealous.[/quote]

This. OP's whole post is written in victimese with a scoop of projection. Sentient people make changes when they recognize they're unhappy, not fulfilling their goals, capable of more, or even just bored. You aren't "sucked into" drama, you elect to join or opt out.

You can change too, OP.[/quote]

Do you think it’s good to move your kids around every year or two? Sending them to new schools clear across the country from their friends and family? Moving into homes with mom’s new boyfriend and his kids and playing blended family for a year or two before moving again?

Quitting jobs every 6 months or so?

Calling friends and family to ask for money?

Selling your car and most belongings to get a fresh start every few years?

Nobody is jealous of these women. And we can’t just walk away when they are family and their kids need support.

And uprooting your kids and make really bad decisions because you are “bored” or deluded enough to think everything will be puppy dogs and rainbows as long as you live by the beach/by the mountains/in a city/in a small town is the epitome of selfishness when you have kids…and downright dangerous when you routinely play house with new men and their kids.

I suppose I’m baffled as to why anyone would think this behavior is okay…and how to help someone snap out of it. [/quote]

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