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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why did ex move back after only ~11 months? Uprooting your life and relocating at 33 or so is hard enough, but to turn around and do it again a year later? When the original intent was to be there indefinitely or at least >3 years?

That’s a huge red flag to me. He seems unstable.[/quote]

OP here. His new job that he is overseeing got fast tracked and he moved back. It’s been a year. I’m not sure where you got where he would gone for at lest 3 years - I said he could be gone for up to 3 years. We knew he would be able to move back by the 3 year mark but were unsure if it would be sooner than that. [/quote]
OK, if he was only going to be gone a *maximum* of 3 years and didn’t propose, He’s Just Not That Into You.

Don’t prioritize him over the new guy. Consequences have actions, he left you and you moved on. What else did he think would happen? That you’d be waiting on your doorstep for him to return?

If he wants another shot, and you want him to, let him prove his mettle again. It should not be as if it were picking up right back up where things were, HE left YOU.[/quote]

Why would he reach back out then?[/quote]

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