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[quote=Anonymous]OP - 40M here exiting a marriage after 10 years with two young kids. To state the obvious, he’s reaching out because he realizes he’s probably going to lose you in this new relationship. Even if it’s going perfect, you have history and depth with this other person. I don’t see a lot of harm in meeting him as a starting point. You’ll need to feel out why he’s reaching out- did something change on his side or is he just trying to see if you’re still within reach. Don’t assume he’s all in on you. Also 38 unmarried is a huge red flag no matter what people are saying here. That’s a risk you’d be foolish not to consider. See your old guy in a non romantic way- coffee or something that will give you air cover if current guy would find that threatening. As pp pointed out you should know quickly where things stand. Whatever it takes to create a happy life for yourself [/quote]
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