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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm not sure what you're tormented over.

In this day and age, outside of very strict religious sects, people assume that a relationship is not exclusive unless there has been a conversation on it. No one I know would go on dates with only those they see as marriage material right from the beginning. And I've personally not had any man want to be exclusive with me before testing me out in bed, sex. And vice versa on my part, BTH.

Is he asking you to be exclusive? And you're worried about losing him b/c you want to be dating as a free agent? Is he asking you to take your profiles down?
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Not yet, but he's asking if I'm dating others (I said yes I do but I don't sleep with anyone). He did state that would be an expectation to be exclusive if we are longer together. My issue is that I already know it won't be long term, but he feels like it's a long term thing and I feel a lot of responsibility that I don't want to take, or even make it worse for him after we sleep[/quote]

Then follow your MO and cut him loose and get on to the next one. What are you complaining about? This is how you choose to function. [/quote]

But I do want to try having sex with him, he's very nice and passionate. [/quote]

Are you the person who has s** with the guy in a car then got upset when you saw another car in his driveway, by any chance?

In either case - just do what you want to do, and you can do it ethically if you just tell the other person your intentions! F*** him if you want - but tell him you're seeing other people, too.[/quote]

No I didn't have s.. in the car with anyone and then saw other cars on the driveway, what is it about?[/quote]

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