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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Not accepting that she has dementia is part of having dementia. It's normal.[/quote] This, with dementia, she doesn't understand or remember. [/quote] It's called anosognosia - ancient Greek for "without knowledge of disease." People with dementia (and people with mental illness) are often cognitively unaware of their condition due to physiological damage to the brain. It's a lack of self-awareness. Their brain simply cannot process the fact that they have dementia. My mom is 82 and in the moderate stages of Alzheimer's. She lived with us two and a half months, until it became unsustainable and we moved her into assisted living. Two months later, she had a pretty serious wandering incident so she was moved to the secure memory care wing of the facility. To this day she says there is nothing wrong with her and complains about having to live with "all these old sick people."[/quote] Well yeah, memory care is basically prison. Op, is your mom on meds? Something like Aricept or were quell or both could help. You need to consult a psychiatrist, neurologist, geriatrician etc about meds that might help. They can improve mood. [/quote] Prison might be better. [/quote]
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