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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I found out my girlfriend of almost two years cheated on me in the beginning our relationship. This has devastated and gutted me. It was semi-early on but it still sucks. We have had an amazing relationship up until now. I’m very much in love with her and envisioned a life with her. I bought a beautiful ring and made plans to propose in June on our anniversary. I felt like I knew her and now I’m questioning everything. I’m heartbroken and confused. [/quote]
The exact same thing happened to me and I took my then-fiancé back. He did a great job of seeming remorseful and sad, and I rationalized the cheating as being less bad because it occurred before we were really, really in love. SMH.

10 years later, I can tell you marrying that cheating SOB was the BIGGEST mistake of my life.

You see, the same dishonesty that led my soon to be ex-husband to cheat and then keep it a secret for years was still there within him. That manipulative behavior was a reflection of his character. The same is true of your fiancée.

With my husband, dishonesty in things big and small became a big issue. It wasn’t just dishonesty in cheating. It was that anytime he had a choice between self-gratification followed by a lie to cover it up versus honesty, he would choose dishonesty every time. It got to the point at which I could never believe anything he said. It was so disorienting. I also have no doubt he cheated again and just didn’t confess this time.

I’m finally divorcing the a-hole. Learn from my mistake and walk![/quote]

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