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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why wouldn’t you go?

1-You clearly want to see her, since you are extending invites to get together.

2-Obviously your friend is truly struggling with something that has been preventing her from seeing you in person, although she still really cares about you since she responds to calls/messages. Who knows what - depression, agoraphobia, anxiety, jealousy over your marriage/kids, fear of going out at night, could be anything.

I would go - you want to see her, & if you cared about her at all, maybe the trip will help her with whatever she’s struggling with so you guys can resume seeing each other once back home.[/quote]

I’m not sure if she is flaky or she is afraid of being out or what. I hold on to memories of the past and our relationship has been different since her divorce. Her divorce seems to have changed her to the core.

She will randomly invite me on a ski trip. I will move heaven and earth to try to make it and then she tells me the trip is off.

She will ask to do a girls trip and never pick a date. She will be the one who starts the conversation and then seems bothered by my trying to lock down a date.

As mentioned, I have not seen her in five years. Every time I try to see her, she declines. She excitedly says she wants to vacation with me and misses me but shuts down when I try to see her sooner. I know she isn’t working and she already said she had no plans besides work. She didn’t even give an excuse. She said let’s just meet at X destination.[/quote]

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