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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's really unclear what your focus is here, op. The crappy job or the crappy husband. That's why people were confused.

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Agree the post is totally confusing but since she put it in the relationship forum I am going with crappy husband, exacerbated by what appear to be pregnancy hormones exposing a high level of nastiness. [/quote]

My husband is not overall crappy, but I have begged and pleaded for years for him to bring up his income so that I could dial back at work, and despite various avenues to do so, he has refused to even try.

I am wondering if I just stop contributing income how he will respond since he has a year sabbatical to figure it out plus plenty of savings.

If he doesn’t even try to figure it out I will divorce him. I can’t stay married otherwise; the resentment will give me cancer. [/quote]

I don't think resentment causes cancer. If you hate the guy divorce is clearly the right answer although I wonder why you chose to have another kid with him. If you feel he has some redeeming qualities why not hire some household help? I have always been the primary breadwinner by a large margin and we outsource some things and DH picks up significant responsibilities, including all the cooking. Maybe you need marriage counseling.

Also the turning off the direct deposit to your joint account to see how he responds is stupid and manipulative. If you can't have a normal conversation about this then it probably is time to divorce. [/quote]

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