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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]That's not "quiet quitting", by the way. Quiet quitting is still doing your job, just not going crazy over-and-above your job. Sounds like you're just quitting (or wanting to - which you can't do by just disconnecting your direct deposit...which is another separate issue).[/quote] I am typing from my phone so that I don’t type this from my work computer, and so I’m taking shortcuts. I connected a personal account instead of joint account, and yes I will still do my job, but if I get a message from daycare that my daughter smeared poop in the bathroom, I am going to stop what I am doing and research OTs and make an appointment and take her. I am going to shower once a day and do my nails. I am going to meal plan and grocery shop. And if my work performance drops I am not going to worry about it or care about my annual performance review.[/quote] Lol you think moms who work and do a good job at work don't shower every day, do their nails, or cook? You really shouldn't be raising children, you sound like an incompetent idiot. [/quote] Yeah this is weird. It’s not like working moms are just existing in the world unshowered and without time to call and make medical appointments. If OP is worried about managing basic self care and her job, then she should downshift. But this is not the norm at all for working moms.[/quote] Oh yeah. Breadwinner moms never complain about having time to fit everything in. I’m completely imagining that societal theme. :roll: [/quote] If you’re the breadwinner and he is on sabbatical then why can’t he handle the daycare calls and grocery shop? Wouldn’t that improve your life? Why do you only want him to provide money? Can’t he do anything else?[/quote]
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