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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]In most cases, kids do what they want once they are 16, especially if they have a car. I read about forced visitation until 18 but never saw it play that way in real life. Most people are unwilling to go to court to force a 16 + year-old to spend time with them, as the result is typically counterproductive. [/quote]

Court orders are till age 18 or graduation from high school.  You failed as a parent if you let your kids do what every they want except if you are behind stopping visits, which is pretty common. [/quote]

16-year-olds with cars are going to stay where they want to stay.  In some cases, it may have nothing to do with their parents.  They'll choose to stay wherever is most convenient to their friends, school, and sports, and will factor in where they have a more comfortable bed and better food.  My 13-year-old is already bigger than me.  I don't see myself forcing him to do anything in 3 more years. It's a bit scary on a bigger level.  [/quote]

You are clearly the issue. [/quote]

Physical force doesn't work when your kid is bigger and stronger.  In any case, legally compelling a 16-year-old
to spend time with someone backed up by physical force is only going to exacerbate the underlying issue.  Try instead calling them and inviting them to lunch, or showing up to cheer for them at their basketball game. [/quote]

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