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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks for responding. When he travels for work there is a noticeable peace that befalls the entire house. The kids are happier. The morning routine is easier. The moment he walks in the door he creates problems, yells, picks on the kids and me. Yes I believe my life would be better alone that with him. He is a high earner, over 1m a year. Though I don’t expect alimony forever, I assume we’d be ok financially even if not where we are now.

No amount of wealth and privilege is worth living like this. [/quote]

You still need a job—you can’t count on a drunk to keep his job and pay alimony.

Also—if he gets partial custody, are your kids going to be safe alone with him? If part of your reason for leaving is him yelling and picking on the kids, realize that won’t change, the only difference is that you won’t be there to protect them when he does it.

You need to stop romanticizing your love life and get real about what you’re going to do to keep your kids safe and cared for.[/quote]

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