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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Narcissists are really good at hiding their behavior. In fact they love bomb in the beginning and do the ultimate bait and switch once you are trapped. It happens a lot. I think once you deal with a narcissist and experience the love bombing it’s easy to spot it in future relationships or when others are experiencing it, but the first time you experience it you feel like you’re in a fairy tale. I didn’t marry one but was in a long term relationship with one, but my best friend did and by year two of marriage and a baby on the way the cracks started to show but she thought they could work through it. By year 4 or so her partner didn’t even try to hide it anymore. [/quote]

You received your degree to diagnose from google?[/quote]

Touchy!! Did I hit a nerve? Have you been called a narcissist time and time again by others who aren’t doctors? Hmmm. Well another thing about most narcissists is they believe their selfish thoughts are the only truth and gaslight everyone else around them to make them feel as they are crazy and also have an inflated sense of self worth on top of that, so they are extremely hard to ever get a diagnosis from a doctor because they would never go to one because they think they are fine and are oh so offended when one would even suggest getting help, thus making them extremely hard to treat. Does that sound familiar?

I’ve read many books, discussed with my own therapist who agreed with NPD, as did his own parents and siblings. Regardless, when you live with one they are very easy to spot once they take off the mask. [/quote]

No, never been called one because I don’t engage with psychos who love to use buzzwords. [/quote]

NP here.  There are many behavioral similarities and much crossover between ASD and narcissism.  I think this geographic area attracts both, as well as those who are socially off, but describe themselves as "introverted".  So, what some people might tolerate in this area, others would not tolerate in other areas. That, and those with more choices tend to filter out more and have more discretion.

In other words, some people choose to overlook certain qualities and deficiencies, for their own conveniences.[/quote]

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