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[quote=Anonymous] PP here. If you know DH is never going to address the issue, and you do not want to give the obnoxious family the satisfaction of you telling them what you really think, then they do not leave you many choices. DH is a grown adult and should be dealing with them, but if/since he doesn't I do not expect to be willing or able (it would necessitate many professionals) to have DH or his birth family see their behavior is so very wrong. They simply are wrong and are not my responsibility. My life was going fine before I knew them, DHs life was not. They are not my problem. It has nothing to do with them ever admitting how rotten they are, because that will never happen. I simply choose to spend my time in other ways, rather than be bullied by them the way DH has always been. I can't undo 40 years of abuse by them, unfortunately. Nor should I be expected to. [/quote]
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