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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I absolutely understand your frustration. It's normal to be frustrated and upset when you can't get something you really really really want. I don't doubt that you really really really want a third. Ignore the nasty comments but as someone who witnessed several friends around me go through secondary infertility, it's not wrong for you to reflect and introspect on the blessing of already having two, and begin to make peace with the fact that you may not get what you really really really want. The harsher comments come from a place of disbelief at your greediness, which we are all guilty of in some degree. Depending on your perspective and frame of reference, it can be greedy to even want to two, let alone three. Start this internal reflection and work now. This way if you don't get the third kid even after whichever course of treatment you choose, you will be in a better place to accept it. And if you do, good for you! [/quote]
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