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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here - I was trying to figure out what to do with regards to reaching out to the bride.  DH says to let it go because if it  gets back to  his aunts that I did it, their nastiness will be coming for me next.  And since we are TTC, I think he's worried what will happen.  I don't think he's aware that I have no intention of ever letting them attend any event for me.

Does anyone have any good suggestions?  I was thinking of sending a message on FB just reiterating that I had a great time, apologizing for their behavior, and saying DH and I would like to take them out for dinner sometime since we will not be able to attend their wedding.  Is this ok?  should I do a handwritten note instead? [/quote]

DH is right to a degree. I think you would want to say something verbally, when you can be more subtle. At dinner would be a perfect time - and you can suss out how she read the Aunts. If she didn't notice their nastiness at all, you don't want to stir anything up.[/quote]

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