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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You did the right thing - but you can also be a good listener when she gets him, and tell her you are proud of her for going and getting through the day. And be mindful not to “interview for pain” by asking too many questions - but also make clear she can tell you how she is feeling etc. And maybe a little treat - trip for coffee etc - because we can all use a treat after having to do something hard like that (and you might find out more that way).[/quote]
OP here. Thank you. I will definitely tell her that when I pick her up. She’s been wanting to try a new restaurant in our neighborhood, so if she’s not too upset with me and is open to going, I think I will take her tonight. [/quote]
I also like the 'treat' her suggestion for afterwards and I'd probably couch it as a congrats on completed 'finals' (and, yes, our MS had end-of-the-marking-period 'tests' or finals too). Don't prompt but listen if she wants to open up about what (might have) happened at school today. Otherwise, I'd be inclined to move it along, being super proud of her pushing through what was likely a tough day, academically and socially.

Hang in there, Mom.  FWIW, I think you did the right thing by making her go to school today.[/quote]

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