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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. I don’t see divorce as an option because then my kids would be with him unsupervised half the time. He lives in filth and is not capable of maintaining a household. His office and the garage are areas he has control over and it is not possible to walk through them or even see the floor. They are overflowing with trash, papers, computers, junk, etc.

I can’t let my kids grow up in an environment like that. I’m staying married to avoid that scenario and so I can ensure that their needs are met. [/quote]

If he's that bad, maybe he wouldn't get 50/50.[/quote]

Op here. My divorce attorney said that barring a documented history of violence or substance abuse, DH will unquestionably be entitled to 50/50 and I should plan accordingly. DH doesn’t use drugs and isn’t violent.[/quote]

Does he actually WANT 50/50?  You filed before- what was his reaction?[/quote]

Op here. No reaction other than shrugging his shoulders like, well, if that’s what you want. He did say he wanted 50/50.

In practice I doubt he’d actually keep the kids 50/50 but he’d be entitled to it.[/quote]

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