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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You could maybe start with why you consider family nothing more than an obligation?  [/quote]

I said wedding invitations were.[/quote]

Um. Yes. You said you invited family to your wedding out of obligation, not because you wanted them there?  Seems like this attitude is why they don’t like you?  You don’t see this connection at all?[/quote]

Not OP.  Puh-lease. It's quite common to send a wedding invitation to people you know aren't going to be able to come.  Normal people often feel an obligation to send the invitation because to do otherwise would, to paraphrase 14:11, would "stir some sh*t".  Best to just send the invitation and avoid unnecessary drama. [/quote]

Exactly. And we were aware the geographic distance would be an issue for some, but still - you don't NOT invite family, even if you know they can't come![/quote]

I think the point is you’re still inviting them because you want them there. If you’re only engaging with people socially out of obligation, they usually know it. [/quote]

Bad take. You ALWAYS invite family. ALWAYS. Otherwise they complain you didn't invite them. [/quote]

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