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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Step back from this and look at it from a different perspective. Your cousin is likely mentally ill. My mother has always been a pot stirring and mean spirited, but she kept it behind closed doors. With age her filter is gone and is causing all sorts of chaos telling people "so and so said this about you" and causing problems. The cousins who have their own mentally ill family members or family members with dementia totally see she has lost it completely, even if they thought she was nice before. What's surprising is the people falling for it. They never saw through her act when she was younger and they have never encountered deranged behavior before.

Assume she is unwell. Don't reach out to her. If you have a trusted connection in the family, maybe mention  it and see what that person says. Otherwise, hopefully with time, you will see how utterly insane this is.[/quote]

Huh. Maybe. She's not at a common age for it (early 30's), but anything's possible, I suppose. I know she went through a nasty divorce a few years ago after her DH was convicted of a serious crime, so maybe there's some stress factoring in. I don't know.[/quote]

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