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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I recently learned a guy I was casually seeing is also seeing 4 other women of all ages. Younger and older than him. 2 of whom he’s on relationships with. They don’t know of these other women.

I knew we casual, but shocked it was that many. What do men get out of this? Isn’t that hard to keep up? Harder than a relationship. [/quote]

Are we dating the same guy? lol[/quote]

He has a full time job and kids. Obviously not seeing him after this tidbit. But shocked because I had no idea. Two other women think they are in a relationship with him. I’m not going to bother with telling them. Just let it implode on him.

I did date casually when I was younger but it was at first talking and date 1 or 2. Not months long fwb or relationships. I wanted casual because I’m recently separated but already worried that this is what I will find. [/quote]

But how did he explain you his unavailability on weekends? It's easy to use kids as "coverup" when you see other women. Usually men who say they were busy at work, not available on weekends, or sudden custody changes are just multi-dating. It's your take whether to take on this crap or not.
 I never sleep with anyone before regularly seeing them a few times a week for at least a month. This shows me the person makes himself available to me, and builds trust resulting in sexual relationship. 
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His excuse was having his kids 3 days a week that he shared custody with. He always made a point to have his phone away to give full attention and complained about people on their phones. Then he had trips to see friends for 3-4 days every two months. I have my kids on weekends so it actually seemed ideal. It’s so clear now but not at the time. [/quote]

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