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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes. You need to be [b][i]very[/i][/b] concerned about it. Many older divorcees purposely are looking for a pocketbook/nest egg. They can put on the biggest show of their life---so lovey dovey--because they need to lock down a future. If they did not work or don't work until recently, have no retirement: risk is too big to overcome. It just is. I'm married, but worked my entire marriage, still working and I have $2.5 million just in my own 401k/employer savings plan (early 50s, woman). This is on top of many other savings and mortgage paid off on two homes. If I left my husband or he left me now---no way in effffinggg hell would I seriously consider another marriage or taking up with somebody that was broke. In 50s and beyond there is no time to recoup. Having seen what retirement/assited living facilities/care cost with my own parent---no way. NO WAY in hell.[/quote] +1 I would never remarry.[/quote]
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