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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would be so, so sad, if my kids didn't have kids. I've told both of them I would look after their babies!

Big hugs, OP. My cousin had her first at 37, after years of saying she didn't want children! She's not married, but she has a long-term boyfriend.

Here's hoping.[/quote]

I am a PP. I actually hope my kids are not dumb enough to have kids and put themselves in a bad situation of having to do two full-time jobs. (Plus, I don't want to be a grandparent.)

Several of my friends had first kids 40-44. 37 is not old (I had one then...one-time slip in years).[/quote]

Why did you've kids yourself if you detest the idea? Bad experience?[/quote]

It was not a choice: first was coerced while off the pill 2 days despite our no-kids agreement. He knew what he was doing. Other was sex only one time later 3 years after in a birth control fail. I was 37. Divorced. He reneged on the one dealbreaker for the marriage.

I never ever wanted to me a working mother. One or the other. Not both. Ex insisted I never stop working so I said no kids: he agreed. I am now living my nightmare that I said I would never do.

There was too much pressure to marry in my early 30s. Marriage brought nothing but misery. [/quote]

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