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Reply to "S/O is anyone not bothered by the “mental load”?"
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[quote=Anonymous]I think from the responses on this thread, it's not the mental load (planning vacations, planning appts, decorating, holiday planning, signing kids up for camps), it's the actual load that's hard. DH does none of the mental load, but will he take the kids to a Dr. Appt? Does he do all the drop offs? Does he cook dinner and help clean? Yep. I just have to tell him to do it, but he's happy to do it. He actually asks me for a honey do list and he's not being sarcastic about that. I basically am his boss, but it's a job I'm good at. We both work the same amount, I'm just better at planning things out, especially with respect to kids, holidays, vacations and our house. Oh and shopping for kids stuff? That's one of the top perks of being a parent!! Getting all the Christmas gifts, birthday gifts, stuffing the Easter basket? Super fun in my mind. Even clothes shopping for them is fun. [/quote]
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