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Reply to "The man I'm dating told me he'd like me to stay home after kids, I don't want to do that."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Listen to what he’s said and don’t expect him to change his mind. He’s not wrong for not wanting to stay home with kids and neither are you. You just want different things. It is what it is. Better to break up now than drag it out. I’m happy as a SAHM and was looking for someone like your boyfriend. You’re looking for someone who wants to take on a 50-50 role. That’s OK. You would both resent each other if you became parents together. [/quote] +1 My husband and I discussed this in depth before marriage as we were both on the same page. I happily SAH until the kids were school aged and now I work a flexible part time job that allows for me to be home when they are. We're all happy and this works for us. SAH isn't what you want and that's 100% fine too, find someone who shares this same vision for the future. Definitely break up now rather than drag it out. [/quote]
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