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Reply to "DH pressuring me to do something I can't"
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[quote=Anonymous]Rock climbing? Free climbing? Just guessing at the hobby... OP, your marriage sounds like it is set up as a competition between two people instead of cooperation between two people. That competitive undertow is what is going on here. When one person in the marriage taunts the other in a "what, are you gonna be a loser?" kind of way, the whole thing goes pear shaped. Not to mention exhausting. Are your two competitors toward each other, or are you cooperative? Are you two individuals, or are you a team? Teams cooperate. The whole foundation of your marriage sounds like it needs re-doing in order for your house to sit well. Or it will sink.[/quote]
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