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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We need to know what has caused this.

Does he wish for the days when you weren't boring? And if you have now become ordinary, do you like that? If not, is there something else you can take up to have a little more thrilling life?

I do get the idea of being sold a bill of goods. A person presenting as one thing before marriage and attracting people with that trait, then chucking it aside. [/quote]

No, he knows taking a backseat to his career has been tough on me. [b]This is about what he thinks will make ME happy.[/b][/quote]

Could it also be about him not wanting to feel guilty? IDK what your hobby is, or how depression is affecting your view of everything, but I know my DH has the annoying habit of suggesting things for me that don't make sense when he wants to feel less guilty about something. Like if he's going to be out of town and I have to do all the kid stuff solo, he'll tell me that I should "get myself special take out every night" even though that would be more work than just getting a pizza or heating up leftovers. It would be so much nicer for him just to say "I know this is inconvenient for you and I appreciate what your doing." (Yes, I have said that).[/quote]

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