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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Are men allowed to comment? In my dating years before social media, on the first date I already knew what she looked like so check that box. The next boxes had to do with was she smart, did she have a sense of humor and was she a good conversationalist. If she checked all of those boxes my first date goal was to get to a second date and part of that wasn’t to try to cop a feel! [/quote]

Ok. I’m confused bc we know each other from before, like many years before when we were in high school. He knows how I look and all the rest. We have had some flirtation in the past. However, this now feels like it could be the start of an actual relationship not the stuff from before. We talked about all of the relationship history and what we are looking for etc. so fairly serious conversation. I wonder if I’m expecting too much or overthinking it to think that if he really wanted a relationship he would have been more reserved physically and just waited.[/quote]

You’ve known him for a long time and the discussion was very serious regarding relationships and what you are looking for. It’s not surprising that he got a bit physical because you are well past the first date get to know you phase. Discussions like you had are usually 3rd or 4th date discussions. The question is did you enjoy it and what are you going to do about it. [/quote]

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