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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You know, people often blame the women for the "mismatch" libido. But, a) sometimes the women have the higher drive and b) lots of time it's not about drive.

MOST men are just not very good in bed. They think they are. They've prob had women fake their way through sex and so they believe they are. But most are not. In talking with lots of women over the years, most agree with me on this. It's hard to get excited about sex with someone when it's not very fun. And if I am the one who has to work so hard to make it fun, then I'm even less likely to want to do it.

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MOST women are just not very good in bed. In fact, you can replace men with women in your statement and it would be equally true. How does one know how good they are when they have been monogamous for 25 years? If your frame of reference is porn, its unlikely that any of us are very good. If you've been married 25, 30, 35 years and you are still having sex 1-2 times a week neither partner can be bad. Now, the partner may not send you to the moon but being good enough to get constant repeat performances is not bad. I'm clueless if my husband is great but he can still make me O and he is very attentive to my desires. I know he'd like me to do certain things more often so Im definitely not great but I'm good enough.[/quote]

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