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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP-Do you want to have sex with him or just want to have sex? YOU sound depressed - and checked out on joy. This isn’t good for you or your kids. Concentrate on solo therapy going forward. For this trip-go ahead and do it and approach it as a break from day to day stress and just enjoy yourself as much as you can. A trip doesn’t fix a marriage but you may find a glimmer of yourself still there.[/quote] Yes don’t lose your sense of self. Dont let yourself get aspergated. Act “as if.” Act as if you’re having a very good time, socializing with a social man, telling fun stories. Often these passive aspie guys will mimic your behaviors - when dating, when married, when you’re sad or happy. So act happy and with it. He might too. But don’t give him anything major to do or figure out, he’ll fake it and you’ll have a mess to fix. [/quote]
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