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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Ignore all the haters.

But give a moment of consideration to why you wanted to share.

Is it because you really need some sort of accommodation at work?

Or do you just feel you need to space to grieve this and want someone to know?

Either of those are things you  might want to pursue for your own sake. For instance, maybe you cannot get an accommodation at work, but you might need to take a vacation day for yourself. You may also be reacting to what you feel is a sense of authenticity in the workplace, given that there is this huge part of you that your boss does not know about. I think we all feel that way often. And it’s a bit uncomfortable and perhaps you want to build towards having a more personal relationship with your boss, but unless there’s actually something actionable you need from your workplace at the moment I would put that on a longer timeline and keep things professional. [/quote]

Just came here to say that it's post like this that keep me coming back to DCUM despite knowing how unhealthy it can otherwise be. Thanks wise PP.[/quote]

OP here and yes, I appreciate this post. I don’t really need any accommodations at work, or for anyone else to throw me a pity party. I have friends who are supportive. It is about me needing some space and time to grieve and accept the new reality. [/quote]

What would this time and space look like? I think it’s fair to ask for unpaid leave for a few weeks while you get your family life sorted out, if it’s a big enough company that they can cover you for that. Make sure you’re clear that it would be unpaid and be prepared for them to say no though.[/quote]

I think I have it sorted. I requested and was granted to use accrued leave in the near-ish future. Not a vacation per se but will give me a few hours a day for a few days to just rest.[/quote]

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