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[quote=Anonymous]They have a different value system than you do. You don’t want the kids to be ‘won’ over by their over the top behavior or consider your love inferior. You don’t feel seen in that your value system is not respected or upheld. you feel they will be corrupted and that you’ll have to work to deprogram them after staying with in laws. You have to intellectualize it by remembering that no one trumps mom. That exposure to different value systems is healthy and that no one system is completely right and without flaws under certain circumstances. See the strengths of what your in laws offer rather than defining them by their weaknesses. And make this work for you. Can they watch kids on school closure days? Find ways for kids to get time with grandparents without your presence, observing and judging. [/quote]
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