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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I understand being unable to host, but she doesn’t even want them in the same country? I’m sorry, but that is not normal. Like not even for an hour?  You should schedule whatever trip you have and just skip going to see her.[/quote]

she says she does not want them to see her like that.

the f***er of it is that it's major surgery. so it's not like i can just flounce off and forget it's happening altogether. and the plan was that if it was at ANY other time than the kids spring break (much like last year), i would go and be there. but as it is i have the kids and also dont want to miss that time with them and also can't make it dh issue for 2 weeks solo. But i can totally see a world where I take the kids somewhere near and she has surgery and has complications and then i'm not there. I suppose at least if i'm in europe i am close and can be more flexible and easily get there if needed. [/quote]

I get it but at the same time it’s over the top. So either you’re not going to see her because you’re not in the same continent or, not seeing her because she doesn’t want the kids to see her. It’s major surgery, so are they going to be looking at the wound or just grandma in bed? It’s really over the top, honestly. I think you’re avoiding your trips based on a lot of guilt.[/quote]

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