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[quote=Anonymous]Do not put this burden on your children. What your children need to hear is that you and their mother no longer feel the love that sustains a marriage and that you will be divorcing. They need to know that it has absolutely nothing to do with them, and that both of you love them. Answer questions about how the kids’ lives will change, but no details about the reasons for the split. It’s natural to be angry, but your kids come first. You’re going to hate this part, but do your absolute best to reach an amicable settlement and co-parent amicably. Is it fair? Yes. It’s fair to your kids. Ultimately you will have a better relationship with them and although in the shorter term you’ll be mad, long term you will save yourself and the kids a lot of pain and angst. [/quote]
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