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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, you have no problem presently, not based on your examples. You may in the future.[/quote]

These were two examples of many. I could give more but that’s the point?  It’s the same story - her not respecting my wishes regarding my kids. [/quote]

I thought it was your daughter's wishes? You keep flip flopping.[/quote]

It was my daughter’s wishes but I communicated them to SIL. I’m not sure why you are trying to find some sort of “gotcha” with my post. [/quote]

Because you aren't communicating well here and probably in reality which is probably a huge part of your problem.[/quote]

NP. You're wrong. OP was clear, SIL overstepped boundaries. You want to make it a thing about OP and it's not. Even if was simply her wishes (and not her DD, which she did check) but even if she didn't check - it's her kid. It doesn't matter what her kid in elementary wanted in this situation. Not sure why you're trying to drag a stranger online - you need a nap.

OP. I would sit down deliberately and not in the moment of another boundary cross. Sit down and say "I'd like to talk to you about examples of you crossing boundaries and going against what I've asked about my daughter/your niece and let you know it's not okay and makes me very uncomfortable and I'd like you to stop."[/quote]

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