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[quote=Anonymous]Sure, you can tell your DH to insist his siblings step up, but he probably won’t. Or he will, but his siblings won’t. Or you can tell his siblings to step up, but the won’t. Given what you’ve said about their family, nothing will change. And you can’t set boundaries for your husband. Doesn’t matter that the situation is ridiculous. So, work under the assumption that your DH is out of the country for a month with no access to the internet and plan accordingly. Hire someone to take your daughter home (a hard thing to do, but maybe someone at the daycare can take her home and watch her for an hour) or make an accommodation at work, can you work from home for an hour after your daughter is asleep, make everything else as easy as possible at home, and cancel/reschedule the vacation. The only things you can control are your actions and you can’t really drop the ball when it comes to picking up your daughter. [/quote]
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