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[quote=Anonymous]I’m going to be the voice of dissent and say to push back on DH. You can be supportive of your DH during this difficult time but you also cannot be put in the position to put your job at risk. I would tell the DH that you can only do daycare pick up X number of days per week and he has to figure out the rest. Whether it means he orders an Uber for his father, tells his siblings to drive him, takes FMLA himself or arranges childcare on those days, he has to figure it out. OP will no longer be enabling this dynamic. The DH also needs to demand the FIL allow him to speak to the medical team regarding his mother’s condition and prognosis if the FIL wants to continue to receive any rides. OP, I remember the other thread. Wishing you all luck as your FIL starts to decline himself. [/quote]
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