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[quote=Anonymous]Wow, the insecurity of some of these posters is really sad. We adopted DD six years ago. We regularly send letters and photos, and have periodic visits. Dd is not confused or upset by this. She understands everyone's role, and she loves us all. The birthmom does not make any decisions about DD. she is just happy to have a chance to know her. I really do not understand why APs feel so threatened by acknowledging the existence of birthmothers. I hope you are not passing on your fear and distrust to your kids or letting them see how you feel. They will have their own feelings about their birthfamilies, and those feelings may not match yours. signed, and adoptive mom and adult adoptee [/quote]
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