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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I recently started my dream job, which is 100% in person and pretty intense.  Yesterday my good friend texted me asking how it was going; we bantered back and forth.  Then she told me about a great new opportunity that just came up for her, and I texted back how exciting it was, asking for more details…and then noticed I had to attend a meeting and told her so, but that I wanted to hear all about it!

[b]She said “you have more important things to attend to! Go to your meeting!”[/b]  After my meeting - two hours later - I texted back following up with questions about her opportunity.  She read these, but did not respond.  Around lunchtime today I texted a cutesy “hello” gif, which she read but did not respond to.  Finally, when I got home today, I sent a message saying “hey I know you’re busy, but I want you to know how excited I am for you! What a great opportunity!” (She read this and has not responded.)

Why did she stop responding?  Obviously I won’t reach out again but ouch. [/quote]

I'm curious as to the vibe of your texts prior to this. It sounds like she's possibly a bit annoyed that maybe she made all the room for you to tell her about your new job and she feels like you aren't reciprocating with hers. I'm not saying that's what you've done, just that that's how she feels.

I'd give her some time and then make a concerted effort to have a discussion about her job and not to interrupt with any of your own stories.[/quote]

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