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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is OP.  I know she read the messages because we use a service that has read receipts, which we both enable.

I know this might sound immature but we are actually in our thirties and, yes, genuinely busy, but this pattern of not responding is not the norm for either of us.

She and her family have been having a tough time due to location (she is a trailing spouse) and she’s currently in school to try to find more opportunities. So jealousy is possible but it wasn’t something I expected.  [b]I think she might have been put off by how quickly I jumped off (but I really did have to go).  [/b]

This kind of codependent/passive aggressive dynamic is also not normal for our friendship! (I’m referring to us both.)

I’ll try not to worry about it, but it’s a little disappointing.  Thanks for the perspectives.[/quote]

It's not like you stopped replying though. 
She sounds a bit needy or jealous. I get her tough time  - as I have done the same exact trailing spouse thing and it sucked - but she needs to be a bit more mature.
I would just let her be personally. I don't chase people who aren't interested in talking.[/quote]

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