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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Baby boomers hate old people and don’t want to be around them, even though they ARE them. Just a returned from visiting my folks and my mother, in her early seventies, acts like my father, in his late seventies, is going to drop dead at any minute. He’s healthy, she’s healthy, and she makes obnoxious comments about old people in restaurants - not realising that she is probably the same age.

They are exhausting and make themselves a burden by being so unselfaware.[/quote]

What an ignorant broad stereotype that is, based on your limited personal experience.  I live in a 55+ (up to 90s) community and don't find that ridiculous exaggeration to be true at all.[/quote]

That's because you have no problem living in a 55+ community! OP and PP are talking about their elderly parents who don't want to move into a better living situation for them due to their age, even though they no longer can handle living in a single family home with stairs that they need to drive everywhere from.[/quote]

My 70+ year old parents wants nothing to do with senior communities. Doesn't like the idea of being surrounded by so much decline and death. I already said, if it gets to the point that I "can't" take care of you because the needs are too much, that's what's gottta happen.[/quote]

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