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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How dramatic. But you like that, don't you?[/quote] +1. I feel like we've heard this story before. OP, if you really don't want contact, then you have to go no contact. As it is now, you're entertaining the idea of contact but are doing the whole, no, that contact isn't right. No, not that either. You've got this idea in your head of what they have to do to get back in your good graces, but I don't think you actually know what it is, which is why you are still opening the letters, receiving the texts, and obsessing over it with your husband (who seems to be feeding into the drama?), hoping that some magical thing will happen. Well, that's not reality. Go to therapy and focus on whether/why you want to cut them off, or better yet, focus on healthy boundaries and perhaps meeting flawed people where they are if that's possible for you. [/quote]
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