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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous[b]]How does one display more gravitas? What is gravitas? I am a young 30’s female WFH and well-regarded. It was the only weakness cited on my recent review. I do not giggle or upspeak. I don’t flip my hair. Thank you for your suggestions. What worked for you?[/quote][/b] Dear OP - I've given reviews like this to younger women but generally give examples. How is your language? do you speak tentatively or with authority? Do you use "um" or "you know". Are you professional in emails. Do you use exclamation points too often. Are you assertive about your ideas when appropriate? Do you dress professionally all the time. Do you act in any way like a bimbo? etc.[/quote] For the love, please stop giving this feedback to younger women! Can you not see how problematic it is??!![/quote] No, it’s spot on. [/quote]
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