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[quote=Anonymous]1) I agree with the advice not to beat yourself up. I don’t even think it was necessarily a mistake. You can never know the counterfactual, and it’s very possible you made the decision that had the best outcome. 2) Why don’t you like that they see him differently? Is it because you feel awkward when you’re all together? Because you feel like they’re judging you? Or because you feel bad for your husband? Don’t feel bad for your husband; when you break someone you have to suffer the consequences of how they choose to deal with the harm. Your husband is a grown man and can deal with people being a little weird around him. 3) I think it’s fine to stay for the money but you do need to protect yourself financially. I know getting a job while you’re dealing with a resume gap and age discrimination (which everyone who says “get a job!” Seems to forget about), but there are options and finding something might make you happier, even independent of the income. [/quote]
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