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[quote=Anonymous]Stay as active and fit as possible right up until the end. This is the best thing for a speedier recovery. My first section I was more active and had a much easier time than the second one. I know that isn't a statistically significant sample size, but I do believe it made a huge difference. Now this time around I am staying as active as my body will allow.

Do no count on driving. Though it worked out fine for OP, if you need to brake suddenly, or worse, it can very quickly develop into a life-threatening situation. Therefore, you will need a driver to get you to those early pediatrician and OB appointments.

And only you know your relatives. I would sooner be miserable than have the help of mine, but even then I can see myself in a position where I would call them. Going through the birth process removes some of your pride (for lack of a better way to say it). When you are there giving birth you are very dependent on other people, and it's okay. I learned a lot about asking for the help I needed because my babies depended on me to make the best choices for their well-being.

Good luck, and realize that this is just a plan B. In all likelihood you will have an uncomplicated vaginal delivery with a normal recovery. You'll be walking and driving in a couple of days. PS- consider joining a church or temple or what have you as soon as you arrive in your new location.  Everyone loves to hold babies, and you may just get an hour of a "free" break once a week. Just a thought for a chance at some instant community in your new locale. There are tons of other options, but few come ready-made as something you can just walk into. (I'm not religious, and in fact I'm an atheist, but I do like church community, happy messeages and service opportunities.)[/quote]

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