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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH does this too.

We are big cruisers and loyal to one line. We think the others are mostly trash and talk about it often. If someone mentions going on other lines, we joke in private. Our friends recently took one, we warned them, joked about it in private, and when they had a bad experience, we were sad for them to their face but joked in private.

HIS coworker was going on the same line and all of a sudden it was fine, they’ll have a great time, he’s sure. It’ll be nice for them because this or that. WHAT? I’m like, who is this man???

I’d love to know why they do this. Does ANYONE have insight? [/quote]

Your husband is distinguishing between friends/family vs coworkers. It’s very understandable, actually.

He has to put on a face/armor for work otherwise he won’t be able to do it. He has to be fake and phony with his coworkers and he has to carry that phoniness over to when he’s talking about them at home, so that he doesn’t slip up at work. If he told people what he really thought, he’d get in trouble and would live in the HR department.

With you and friends he’s sharing his real opinions because he can be himself. This one is easy to understand. In fact, I can’t understand why it’s confusing for you.[/quote]

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